“If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.” Opening Prayers Let us meet Jesus; in him we see God. Let us seek his presence as a friend. Let us follow him for his way is life and truth. He will bring us where we need to be to do God’s work and be God’s people. Lord Jesus, we come together in your presence. We ask for courage to take steps towards places we cannot yet see, and do things we cannot even imagine, and could not do without you. Help us all to help each other as we travel that path and follow you. Amen. Great Is thy faithfulness 51 Singing the Faith Matthew 16:21-28 New International Version Jesus Predicts His Death 21 From that time on Jesus began to explain to his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things at the hands of the elders, the chief priests and the teachers of the law, and that he must be killed and on the third day be raised to life. 22 Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him. “Never, Lord!” he said. “This shall never happen to you!” 23 Jesus turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.” 24 Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. 25 For whoever wants to save their life[a] will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it. 26 What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul? 27 For the Son of Man is going to come in his Father’s glory with his angels, and then he will reward each person according to what they have done. 28 “Truly I tell you, some who are standing here will not taste death before they see the Son of Man coming in his kingdom.” From heaven you came, helpless babe 272 Singing the Faith Message Today, we’re looking at a crucial question of our Christian faith: What does it mean to follow Jesus? In today’s gospel reading (Matthew 16:21-28), we get a statement from Jesus that answers this question in a very clear, simple, but challenging way. Jesus says: “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.” So, today we dive into this, and explore what Jesus is teaching us about what it means to be his follower, what it means to be a Christian. And this statement has three dimensions to it, so let’s take each of them in turn. We’re going to start by looking at the first two. First, Jesus teaches that we must deny ourselves. This is definitely not a popular teaching in our world today! It never has been. It won’t win you an election. It won’t make you famous. And we don’t hear it anywhere else but in church. If you go on the internet and search for websites or YouTube videos that teach you how to deny yourself, about all you will find is this teaching from Jesus. So, what is Jesus talking about here? I think he simply means that there are times when we must say “no” to ourselves in order to say “yes” to God. It’s really that simple. And maybe you even did that today. You came here this morning, you’re watching or reading this sometime, when you didn’t have to - but you did it anyway. If that’s the case, then you denied yourself, at least on a small scale. And I think that is some of what Jesus is talking about. Sometimes we must say no to ourselves in order to say yes to God. I also think that, on a deeper level, Jesus is saying that we must deny our false selves in order to truly be the person God created us to be. What is our false self? It’s the self that is governed by the world’s standards. It is the self that equates success with happiness. The self that believes that the one who literally ends up with the most toys wins. The self that thinks that things like more money, more power, and more pleasure are what will bring more peace. Isn’t this all our false self? And only when we deny it can we become our true self, the person that God has created us to be. We don’t have to be anything different from who we truly are. But we’ll never discover and accept who we truly are until we deny the false self that we all have. That is step one to following Jesus. “If any want to become my followers,” Jesus says, “let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.” If denying ourselves is unpopular these days, then how about taking up our cross? And what does that even mean? One thing we all learn in life is that not all crosses that we take up are voluntary. Sometimes a cross is placed on our shoulders that we didn’t ask for. Any unsettling health diagnosis, the death of a loved one, the loss of a job – these, to me, are crosses that we don’t ask for. But when we accept them, and trust God to be with us through them, then we are taking them up as crosses. They are not God’s punishment – I don’t believe that – but when we can accept them, we can begin to see God at work in them. There are, of course, many other crosses that are voluntary. Tasks, for example, that we know will be difficult, but that we choose to do anyway, because we believe that God wants us to. There are many stories of people, putting themselves in harm’s way on our behalf. Think of Sergeant Graham Saville who died just this week after being hit by train while he helped a distressed man. But another thing that I have become convinced of is that the cross that we are asked to take up by Jesus changes over our lifetime. The cross that you are asked to take up as a young person is very different from the cross that you are asked to take up as an older person. As a young person, your cross might mean standing up for what you believe, even when it’s unpopular. It might mean saying no to friends, even when it threatens your friendship. If you get close to someone, live with a partner, there are new crosses, including those times when you are called to put thar person’s needs and interests before your own. If you have children, there are new crosses as well. Including caring about your child so much that it hurts you when they are hurt. As you continue to age, new crosses present themselves. Giving up independence, as you no longer are able to drive. Learning to humble yourself and rely on others for help. And, again, these crosses are not always voluntary. But part of what it means to follow Jesus, I believe, is to try to accept them gracefully, and humbly, and courageously. Accept the cross, trust Jesus, and follow him. And when we do this, we’ll be telling the world much more about what we believe than any words we might say. The truth is that I don’t know what cross you are being asked to bear right now. But I do know that there is a cross that is yours and no one else’s. There was a cross that was only for Jesus. There was a cross that was only for his first disciples. There is a cross that is only for me. And there is a cross that is only for you. And if we want to follow Jesus, we must take it up. Take up our cross. But as we do this, and choose to take up our cross, let us remember the third and final aspect of what Jesus is teaching us today about what it means to follow him: That we deny ourselves and take up our cross in order to follow him. And that means that when we do this, Jesus himself will be with us. He will be leading us. And he will help us do what he asks. With Jesus leading us, we can deny ourselves and take up our cross. Without Jesus, it would be far too difficult. But he doesn’t ask us to do this alone. He invites us to follow him, which means to be with him. This brings to mind for me another invitation that Jesus makes. He also invites all that are weary and carrying heavy burdens to come to him, and he will give you rest. Take his yoke upon you, he says, and learn from him. For his yoke is easy and his burden is light. When we are yoked with Jesus, we no longer do whatever we want and go wherever we want. We are denying ourselves. And we are taking up this burden, this cross. But Jesus takes it up with us. And that makes the cross bearable. Denying ourselves and taking up our cross means being yoked with Jesus. It means losing one life, but it means finding another. It means losing the life that leads to despair and emptiness, but it means finding the life that leads to hope and meaning. And the only way to find this life, is to deny ourselves, and take up our cross, and follow Jesus. So let us try to do so, to the glory of God. Amen Father hear the prayer we offer 518 Singing the Faith Intercession Prayer Loving God, it’s tempting to try to blame you when we see the problems in our world today. We see so much pain and sadness, hunger, starvation, trauma and displacement because of war, terrorism and natural disasters. In the past few weeks and months, we’ve witnessed earthquakes, hurricanes, floods and wildfires graphically displayed in the news on our TV screens. We pray today for all people and creatures who are suffering in the aftermath or as a result of all these things. We pray for those who have lost their homes and all that they have, we pray for persecuted people and refugees throughout the world. Help us to be understanding, loving and welcoming to those who arrive in our towns and cities and to listen to their stories. Help us to be the answer to our own prayers, to make a difference where we are, with the people you give us to share life with. May we hate what is evil and hold on to what is good. Help us to rejoice in hope, to be patient in suffering, and to persevere in prayer. Show us opportunities to contribute to the needs of all people; so that we can offer hospitality to strangers and live together in peace. We pray for wisdom and honesty among world leaders and all who hold positions of power and authority. May all people working for the benefit of others find the courage to stand up for those with no voice of their own whatever the cost. We think of people close to us who are suffering. Those who are sick, those who have lost loved ones and mourn for them, and those who find it hard to forgive those who have caused their pain. Help us to demonstrate in our own lives that forgiveness brings healing: that the words ‘I’m sorry’ can close an open wound. Loving God, we hold on to the promises that you have given us that evil will not win and that you will protect us. We know that you did not promise us that our journey with you would be easy or free from pain and suffering, but we give thanks that you are with us whatever our circumstances. By the power of your Holy Spirit, help us, in our lives to see the world through your eyes. “So let us learn how to serve and in our lives enthrone him, each other’s needs to prefer, for it is Christ we are serving.” In his name, we bring our prayers to you today. Amen Lords prayer Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For the kingdom, the power, and the glory are yours now and for ever. Amen O Jesus I have promised 563 Singing the Faith Blessing
Go out to follow Jesus further. He won’t go out of your sight. He will always be there if you look. Look hard, because he may not be where you expect. But where he is, is where you – we – want and need to be. Amen.
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3/9/2023 09:53:15 am
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